Krazy Glue Used in Sexual Revenge Plot

The latest real-life example of the old adage “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” occurred in Wisconsin when a man found cheating had his penis Krazy Glued to his stomach in a criminal case of sexual revenge.

Last week, two Wisconsin sisters pleaded no contest to reduced charges in plea agreement that is expected to allow them to avoid jail time.

The sisters, Therese Ziemann, 48, of Menasha, and Michelle Belliveau, 43, of Neenah, were accused along with two other women of gluing the penis of Donessa T. Davis, 37, to his stomach in an incident that occurred in Calumet County in July.

Davis, 37, alleged Ziemann tied him to a bed at a Stockbridge motel room July 30 when he went there for a sexual rendezvous. He says he was then set upon by Ziemann and Belliveau, as well as his wife Tracy Hood-Davis, 30, of Fond du Lac, and yet another girlfriend, Wendy Sewell, 44, of Kaukauna.

Prosecutors said the women got together without Davis' knowledge to plot an appropriate punishment for him after learning he had been cheating on his wife, Ziemann and Sewell. Each of the three women had believed they were his only paramour. Belliveau just went along to show support for her sister, prosecutors said.

The acknowledged cheating husband was lured to the motel, located in a small town about 30 miles from Green Bay, by his girlfriend – Ziemann, his mistress for the past three months. Thinking he was going to enact a bondage fantasy with the woman, he allowed her to tie him to the bed.

After Davis was trussed up with the promise of a “sensual massage,” Ziemann then called for her sister, Belliveau; Davis’ second lover, Sewell, and his estranged wife Hood-Davis.

The four allegedly refused to release him, threatened him with mace, punched him in the face, and then applied the coup de grace, the ultimate insult: Using Krazy Glue to affix his manhood to his stomach.

Prosecutors said it was Ziemann who performed the actual gluing.

Ziemann pleaded no contest in Chilton to disorderly conduct and misdemeanor battery, while Belliveau pleaded no contest to disorderly conduct. They are scheduled to be sentenced Feb. 2, 2010.

District attorney Ken Kratz agreed not to seek jail time for either one.

An attorney for Ziemann said she is being treated for "an emotional disorder."

Sewell pleaded not guilty last month to a false imprisonment charge. Her case remains pending.

A false-imprisonment charge against Tracy Hood-Davis was dropped earlier. However, Kratz said that new criminal charges will be filed against her. Kratz did not say what those charges would be, only that they will be filed “soon.” But court documents show that she may have coached her husband to testify in her favor. Kratz would also not say whether Donessa T. Davis will also face potential perjury charges.

Let me be clear: There is never a time when infidelity justifies violence against the cheater, provided no minors are involved and there is no forced victimization or rape.

However, infidelity causes very real pain to the victims, and serial cheaters need psychological help. Just look at the Tiger Woods case if you doubt the impact of infidelity on everyone involved. Faithfulness is the least a partner should expect after giving intimacy and trust to a paramour. The abuse of that trust is devastating, whether it happens within a marriage or to unmarried partners, regardless of sexual orientation. If you do not want to be faithful, don’t commit. If you cannot be faithful, get help. Period.




— The Curator

Tiger Leaves Golf and Apologizes Again

Tiger Woods is taking an indefinite “break” from golf, and has apologized for his “infidelity” in the latest statement he posted last night on his website.

It took the apparently clean-cut, family-man Woods decades to propel his career into the stratosphere and become the first $1 billion sports superstar, but it took only two weeks for his entire life to burn up in reentry and crash unceremoniously to the ground – perhaps permanently.

International attention was thrust on Woods appropriately on Black Friday following a bizarre single-vehicle crash that sent the 33-year-old Woods to the hospital. The crash occurred about 2:30 a.m., outside Woods’ home in Windermere, Fla. Woods, who had been driving at a slow speed, hit a mail box then careened into a tree. Woods has said that his wife heard the crash, rushed out and used a golf club to knock out the back windows of the vehicle and dragged him out of the wreckage. A neighbor who called 911, told police that Woods was unconscious for a short time.

There has been continued speculation that his wife, the model Elin Nordegren, had actually struck Woods in the face with a nine-club while they were inside their home in a heated argument about allegations he had been unfaithful.

Woods, who suffered facial lacerations, cuts and bruises said later that his wife “acted courageously,” by helping him.

The crash fueled a barrage of media speculation that the crash was linked to tabloid reports Woods' had allegedly been cheating on his wife with New York nightclub hostess Rachel Utichel.

Despite Florida authorities saying they considered the case closed, scrutiny only grew – and another woman emerged, claiming she and the pro golfer had been involved in a 31-month romance, complete with torrid text messages and some voice mails. Since then, a total of 16! alleged mistresses have been romantically linked to Woods. There have also been a slew of ugly allegations that Woods misused sleeping medications to propel himself into a “sex haze,” and that one of the women even slept overnight in his marriage bed while his wife was away.

One mistress has even reportedly been peddling nude photos she claims is of Woods, depicting him from the waist down, to Playgirl Magazine and other publications asking for a half-million dollars. A spokesman for Playgirl said they were offered documentation that the man depicted was Woods, but they still decided to decline to purchase the photos. While not acknowledging those photographs directly, Woods’ attorney obtained an injunction in England to prohibit publication of any “purported” nude photos of his client in any magazine or online anywhere, anytime.

Woods has been a money making machine not only personally, but for his sponsors and the entire PGA Tour. Golf officials even coined the phrase the "Tiger Effect" related to tournaments televised. In tournaments in which Woods plays, TV viewership increases a staggering 65 percent! The loss of Woods in the golfing world is thus incalcuable.

Since the scandal, Gatorade has dropped Woods and has stopped producing its "Tiger" beverage named after him. After last night's posting by Woods, Gillette announced it would be supporting his request for privacy by "limiting his role" as their spokesman; Chevron and AT&T have both announced that they are "re-evaluating" their professional relationship with the super star; Stanford (Wood's alma mater) has removed the public service announcements he taped to promote the university; and Accenture has removed Woods' name from its website.

I believe that the extreme negative reaction virtually worldwide against Woods has occurred for two basic reasons. The first is that Woods had promoted himself as a straight-arrow, clean-cut, family man truly above reproach. He had appeared to have gladly stepped into the part of role-model to youngsters, especially to kids of color. The statistics are undeniable and staggering – the bulk of all youngsters of color world-wide who began to play golf in the last few years did so because of him. Thus, he was expected to live up to those weighty expectations, a.k.a., with great power comes great responsibility.

The second, is the nature of the sport of golf itself. It is a time-honored sport that applauds excellence and integrity. It is not lost in this discussion that golf cheaters are shunned. It is, afterall, the ONLY sport that expects players to call penalties on themselves, and they do!

It is therefore conceivable that had a top National Football League player been involved, the scandal would not have escalated to a tsunami that lays waste to everything in its wake.

I had promised myself I would not report on this unpleasant incident again. I feel very, very sad for his wife, and I am actually quite worried for Woods’ emotional and physical well-being. He needs professional help – and lots of it – not vilification, and she needs to do whatever it takes ensure her protection, and the protection of their two young children.

The horrendous scandal seems unending, and since Woods has finally posted a more realistic statement, I decided to write about it once again, and to include that statement in its entirety.

While you’re digesting the statement, please consider this: Why didn’t he just use an escort service? I strongly believe in legalized, licenced prostitution, using adults only! Generally, women who voluntarily enter the sex industry have either the emotional makeup, or have obtained the necessary training to be able to have casual sex without emotional harm. Most women, studies have found, lack this ability. So, not only has Woods’ wife been devastated, many of his mistresses have been in distress because they had developed deep feelings for him, especially since some of them had long-term relationships with the golfer, and each believed that they were his only mistress.

Going to the same escort service would have ensured his privacy, as well as ensuring that safe sex practices were maintained. It has been reported that Woods had unprotected sex with several of his mistresses, so the possibility that they could have become pregnant, or that he could have infected his wife with an STD existed.

One must also ponder why a shrewd man like Woods would assume that his sexual transgressions (.e. a vast number of mistresses) would remain forever secret. Was he that arrogant, or could he have subconsciously wanted to be found out and come clean?

Whatever is the real truth of Woods’ inner life, here is his statement, complete and unedited with the headline that was also posted on his website:

Tiger Woods Taking Hiatus from Golf
By Tiger Woods

I am deeply aware of the disappointment and hurt that my infidelity has caused to so many people, most of all my wife and children. I want to say again to everyone that I am profoundly sorry and that I ask forgiveness. It may not be possible to repair the damage I've done, but I want to do my best to try.

I would like to ask everyone, including my fans, the good people at my foundation, business partners, the PGA Tour, and my fellow competitors, for their understanding. What's most important now is that my family has the time, privacy, and safe haven we will need for personal healing.

After much soul searching, I have decided to take an indefinite break from professional golf. I need to focus my attention on being a better husband, father, and person.

Again, I ask for privacy for my family and I am especially grateful for all those who have offered compassion and concern during this difficult period.

Woods’ wife is reportedly considering returning to her native Sweden with their children, while he is said to be living on his docked yacht, which ironically had been Christened, "Privacy." That name has now been covered up, leading to speculation that he has renamed the vessel, and will soon take to the high seas destination unknown -- hoping not to be run aground by the media. 

Whatever happens, I hope that this scandal leads to substantive public discussions about sex, commitment, marriage, cheating, prostitution, safe sex, and sex addition. If that happens, then at least something positive will have resulted from this nightmare.


— The Curator

Updated: Woods Apologizes and Alleged Third Woman

Embattled iconic golfer and athlete Tiger  Woods confessed Wednesday to unspecified “transgressions” and apologized to his family and fans, while yet a third woman has now been romantically linked to the star.

Late Thursday, the first woman who was his alleged mistress, New York nightclub hostess Rachel Utichel, scheduled a press conference where she was expected to admit the affair and offer proof. Prior to that, she had categorically denied the relationship. Unexpectedly, that press conference was canceled due to "unforeseen circumstances," and there would be no further statement.

Sadly, yet a third leggy brunette has surfaced as a suspected mistress of Woods. After hostess ad Playboy model Uchitel, and reality television star turned Las Vegas cocktail waitress Jaimee Grubbs, it is the marketing manager of “The Bank,” a night club in Bellagio in Las Vegas.

Her name is Kalika Moquin. She had been featured on a Las Vegas magazine and is considered to be one of the most influential people in Las Vegas. According to the rumors that are circulating around this woman, she was privy to the intimate details of the Woods’ marital life.

What increased the media’s attention in the story is that Moquin did not follow the route taken by Grubbs, and now apparently Utichel. She was not willing to comment on her relationship with Woods.

While on the one hand she did not say that she was actually having an affair with the golfer, on the other hand, she said that she did not think that it was appropriate of her to comment on the matter. Now that is enough of an innuendo for the press to become curios about the affair.

Rumors claim that Woods had imparted to her gritty details of his marriage with Elin Norgreden.

He had allegedly told her that he was unhappy about his marriage and that he was under a lot of pressure regarding his home life. Reportedly, the two had met some two years back, but the affair had started between them sometime this October. She had been allegedly seen with Woods a couple of times at his hotel in Vegas, as late as Oct. 23.

I used to be a print journalist – for decades. In the old days, a celebrity’s private life was definitely off-limits. The same was true for politicians, unless their private behavior had an impact on their public behavior/governing.

Sadly, those days are truly dead and buried. For years now, “anything and everything goes” has been the credo of the “new news media,” and the more prurient the better. If said bad behavior involves a politician: wahoo; but if that bad behavior involves a celebrity: wahoo, WAHOO!

Well, can you say jackpot! The media gets to excoriate the most famous golfer/athlete on the planet! In fact, he’s even the first sports star who has made $1 billion, and has established a non-profit foundation that helps children worldwide. What makes the rabid press salivate and gnash their teeth even more is that Woods has built that empire on a squeaky-clean image of a stalwart family man, who in actual fact appears to be a deeply troubled man with a disturbing trail of a serial infidelities.

Well, Woods has proven that he is a guy with faults, albeit huge ones, just like so many of the rest of us. He’s acted very inappropriately, and he got caught. He’s sorry and he wants to deal with the inevitable fallout of his atrocious behavior with his wife and family. Let him!

The pathologically private Woods was forced to confront rumors of having serial infidelities publicly because of the feeding frenzy by the media, and posted a somewhat tortured statement Wednesday on his Web site, that included his heartfelt apology.

"I have let my family down and I regret those transgressions with all of my heart," he writes. "I have not been true to my values and the behavior my family deserves. I am not without faults and I am far short of perfect."

But why was he forced to do this publicly? Why do we believe that we have a right to know the very, very private, even intimate behavior of sports celebrities, and other celebrities? Since when does being arguably the greatest golfer in history, mean that he has to come clean about his private behavior to the worldwide masses?

In the wake of a one-car accident last week, rumors had swirled that the crash was somehow caused by allegations that Woods, 33, had been involved in an affair behind wife's back. Despite Florida authorities saying they considered the case closed, scrutiny only grew – and another woman emerged, claiming she and the pro golfer had been involved in a 31-month romance, complete with torrid text messages and some voice mails.

Woods categorically denied reports that domestic violence could have played any role in the car accident as "utterly false and malicious."

While Tiger did not clarify the "transgressions," today’s Web site statement came after 24-year-old Los Angeles cocktail waitress Grubbs claimed to have had a three-year-long affair with the golf superstar. She said she has the evidence to prove it.

In a voicemail, apparently from Woods to Grubbs, posted on the US Weekly Web site, a panicked and strained voice identified as Woods by US Weekly apparently begs Grubbs to change her voicemail greeting. The voicemail is from Nov. 24, the day before reports of his alleged affairs surfaced, according to US Weekly.

"Hey it's Tiger. I need you to do me a huge favor," Woods says in the message. "Can you please, uh, take your name off your phone? My wife went through my phone and may be calling you. If you can, please take your name off that and, um, what do you call it, just have it as a number on the voicemail. Just have it as your telephone number. You have to do this for me. Huge. Quickly. Bye."

I have to say, Woods has a very distinctive voice, and the recording that was played in the media is unmistakably HIS voice.

The voicemail was accompanied by a lengthy article in which Grubbs claims to have had 20 sexual encounters with Woods since April 2007. She also claims to have more than "three hundred racy texts from Woods," as well as photos.

International attention was thrust on Woods this weekend following a bizarre single-vehicle crash early Friday morning which sent Woods temporarily to the hospital. The crash occurred about 2:30 a.m., outside Woods’ home in Windermere, Fla. Woods, who had been driving at a slow speed, hit a mail box then careened into a tree. Woods has said that his wife heard the crash, rushed out and used a golf club to knock out the back windows of the vehicle and dragged him out of the wreckage. A neighbor who called 911, told police that Woods was unconscious for a short time.

Woods, who suffered facial lacerations, cuts and bruises said later that his wife “acted courageously,” in helping him.

The crash fueled a barrage of media speculation that the crash might be linked to tabloid reports Woods' had allegedly been cheating on his wife with Utichel.

Utichel categorically denied any romantic involvement with Woods on Tuesday. Yet on Thursday, Utichel's denial had been expected to be reveresed. She had scheduled a press conference where she was expected to confirm she had an affair with him, and to provide proof. The press conference was canceled.

Later Tuesday Grubbs' claims about her affair with Woods appeared on the US Weekly Web site.

Before Grubbs spoke out about their alleged relationship, Woods apparently referenced the tabloid allegations of the affair with Utichel in a statement on his Web site following the accident.

In an earlier statement, Woods praised his wife for "acting courageously" to help him after his accident and denounced "unfounded and malicious rumors that are currently circulating about my family and me."

After a five-day investigation, the Florida Highway Patrol announced Tuesday Woods was issued a traffic citation for careless driving. Woods had refused to meet with troopers investigating the crash on three separate occasions, ostensibly because Florida in among states that adheres to “Sunshine Laws,” meaning that every police report and taken statement becomes public record. His lawyer said Woods paid a $164 fine and lost four points on his license. He will not face criminal charges stemming from last week's car crash, investigators said.

"We are pleased with the outcome," said Tiger's attorney Mark NeJame. "It's over."

On Tuesday, the lawyer for the neighbor who called 911 after Woods' car crash said that the golf star's injuries had appeared to be the result of the accident and not a domestic dispute.

Woods dropped out of this week's Chevron World Challenge in California, which he has hosted for nine years, because of injuries sustained in the crash.

The following, is Wood’s complete statement he issued Wednesday on his website:

“I have let my family down and I regret those transgressions with all of my heart. I have not been true to my values and the behavior my family deserves. I am not without faults and I am far short of perfect. I am dealing with my behavior and personal failings behind closed doors with my family. Those feelings should be shared by us alone.


“Although I am a well-known person and have made my career as a professional athlete, I have been dismayed to realize the full extent of what tabloid scrutiny really means. For the last week, my family and I have been hounded to expose intimate details of our personal lives. The stories in particular that physical violence played any role in the car accident were utterly false and malicious. Elin has always done more to support our family and shown more grace than anyone could possibly expect.


“But no matter how intense curiosity about public figures can be, there is an important and deep principle at stake which is the right to some simple, human measure of privacy. I realize there are some who don't share my view on that. But for me, the virtue of privacy is one that must be protected in matters that are intimate and within one's own family. Personal sins should not require press releases and problems within a family shouldn't have to mean public confessions.


“Whatever regrets I have about letting my family down have been shared with and felt by us alone. I have given this a lot of reflection and thought and I believe that there is a point at which I must stick to that principle even though it's difficult.


“I will strive to be a better person and the husband and father that my family deserves. For all of those who have supported me over the years, I offer my profound apology.”


Obviously, the ugly public chapter for Woods continues, and continues to get even uglier, if possible.

Woods has a lot of difficult days ahead dealing with his wife, his family, the crush of the media, and whatever it is within his own psyche that caused his behavior.

A man as smart as Woods should have known that his womanizing would eventually be exposed. The fact that he didn't, or that the possibility of explosive discovery failed to deter his self-destructive course, speaks volumes about his mindset, and dire need of professional help.

I hope that he gets that psychological help that he obviously needs, and that his wife gets all of the love and support that she needs from family and friends to some how cope with all of this, so that she can decide what she should, or should not do in terms of her life and marriage.

I also hope that Woods image as the top golfer remains undiminished, but it is probable now that his “brand” will indeed suffer, and that he may lose endorsements or sponsors. They have steadfastly stood behind him so far, but that was before the third woman emerged, and prior to Utichel's apparent about face and big reveal.

The extent of any financial damage remains to be seen, and may likely depend upon any further unsavory revelations that become public. I truly hope, however, that his very important non-profit organization to benefit children continues to thrive despite the burgeoning scandal.


— The Curator